title: Aug 25 2019 - 06:30:59 AM
date: 2019-08-25 06:30:59
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I agree with all this until you propose the solution to "be nice", it doesn't address the problem you state. Had he "been nice" he could have been doing a bad, and that's not good.
Nice is great, but not the precise finger to cover this sun with.